Nothins Wrong With You
You’re Just Repeating Yourself
Nothins Wrong With You is not a book about fixing yourself. It is a book about noticing what keeps running when you’re not paying attention.
If you’ve ever wondered why insight doesn’t translate into change, why you keep making the same decisions with better explanations, or why self-help books make sense right up until real life resumes—this book is for you.
Nothins Wrong With You takes a dry, candid look at how habits, feedback loops, and repetition quietly shape what you call “personality.” No affirmations. No transformation arcs. No promise that reading this will make you calmer, happier, or more successful.
Instead, it offers something rarer: clarity without consolation.
Written with surgical humor and structural seriousness, this book dismantles familiar self-improvement myths while refusing to replace them with new ones. You won’t be told what to believe, who to become, or how to optimize your morning. You will be shown—repeatedly, and sometimes uncomfortably—how automatic most of your life already is.
Along the way, you’ll laugh, wince, recognize yourself, and occasionally wish you hadn’t.
This is a book for readers who:
- are tired of motivational noise,
- suspect their “self” is more system than soul,
- want fewer explanations and more leverage,
- and don’t mind being gently mocked in the process.
Nothins wrong with you.
You’re just repeating yourself.
And once you see that, things get interesting.
Index
- The You That Keeps Getting in the Way
- Your Intentions Are Late to the Meeting
- Your Feelings Are Not Orders (They Just Sound Like Them)
- Certainty: The Most Addictive Feeling You Have
- The Stories You Live Inside (And Defend Like Property)
- The Social Machinery That Thinks for You
- Why Trying Harder Is the Least Interesting Strategy
- The Offense of Slow Change
- Applying This Without Turning Yourself Into a Project
- Do Not Make This Your Personality
- A Short Manual for When Everything Still Goes Wrong
- What You Do After You Understand (Unfortunately, That’s the Hard Part)
- Maintenance, or: Congratulations, You’re Now Responsible
- The Exit, or: Please Don’t Make This a Cult